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Use of Vibrators in BDSM

- Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

Wand vibrators are very popular sex toys in all sorts of situations. They have power and this can make for very intense orgasms and even help people who have trouble with orgasm reach climax for the first time.

People who enjoy BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) as part of their sex lives can use wand vibrators as integral parts of their play. Orgasm denial and forced orgasm are techniques used in BDSM handheld electric wand vibrators are really useful for both of these.

In orgasm denial, the dominant person will often tease the submissive person and attempt to make them get as close as possible to orgasm and then not allow them release. A powerful wand vibrator is an essential tool for this technique. The O-WAND® makes an ideal vibrator to engage in this play because it is powerful with 4 speeds, flexible with 7 patterns of vibration, cordless and waterproof! The ergonomic grip is a bonus as the dominant may be holding this wand for a long time edging their submissive. Edging is a sexual technique that many love and it involves bringing a person to the edge of orgasm and then leaving them there. This is done many times before release is allowed (if it is allowed).

In forced orgasm, the dominant person will push the submissive person to orgasm many times. For this technique, a good wand is essential. The more power, the better. Cordless is a must as finding outlets in play spaces is never easy. Waterproof is a bonus as this allows for play in baths, showers and means no concern if the wand becomes drenched with bodily fluids (as opposed to just wet!). The O-WAND® is ideal in these circumstances. It ticks all the boxes for a great sex toy as well as all the boxes for an intense wand.

Sometimes a wand is used to push a person to a level of intensity that is somewhat painful, particularly when a submissive person is a masochist. In order to do this, the wand needs to be very powerful indeed. If the wand is an effective handheld personal massager, it can be used to stimulate pressure points on the body – sometimes causing pain and other times causing relief from pain. The O-WAND® has a patent as a personal massager and boasts 7 vibration programmes as well as four speeds which allows the intensity to be increased in unpredictable ways making its use for BDSM play ideal.

The O-WAND®’s attachments are also useful in BDSM play as they allow for a number of other types of stimulation. There is the O-Burst which has nodules that change the sensory experience and can intensify it. Some people love this attachments because the bumps bring the intensity up just a notch. There is the O-GASM® which is a male masturbator sleeve and this one is great for orgasm denial as it will push a man over the edge easily! There is the O-Spot which is a prostate and G-spot stimulator and can be used in both forced orgasm and orgasm denial. Last but not least is the O-La-La clitoral stimulator which makes the action of the wand so much more intense when stimulating the clitoris. This one makes orgasm denial more difficult for the submissive as they can find themselves pushed into an orgasm so easily and end up being punished.

The O-WAND® is luxurious made of black highest grade ‘body safe’ silicone with a gold ergonomic handle. It looks hot as well as being one of the hottest sex toys on the market. It is definitely the most powerful cordless wand on the market and more powerful or equally as powerful the corded wands. The O-WAND® is an excellent part of both a dominant and submissive’s toy box.

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a sex and intimacy coach and psychologist who has spent the past 32 years helping people to create and maintain their ideal sexual relationships. Her mission is to take sex and conversations about sex from the shadows to the light. She hosts the A to Z of Sex® radio on Voiceamerica.com on Thursdays 11 AM PST/ 2 PM EST/ 7 PM BST. You can find her on http://drloribethbisbey.com and https://atozofsex.com . For 10% off on the O-WAND® use code DRLORI10.