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- Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey
People who have a disability may find that sexual stimulation is a problematic in a variety of ways. Some people who have a clitoris find that reach is an issue. When this is the case, a wand handheld vibrator can solve this problem. The patented O-WAND® is made of velvety smooth body safe silicone and is the most powerful on the market.
The electric O-WAND® is rechargeable, waterproof and has four speeds and 7 vibration programmes. The handle is ergonomic so although it is heavy, it is easy to balance and hold. It comes with one attachment (O-Burst) that has sensory nodules and there are three other attachments. The O-La-La is a clitoral stimulator. This focuses the power and sensation directly on the clitoris. Some people with disabilities suffer from reduced sensation. The power and patterns of this vibrator can help them achieve orgasm more easily.
Men who have problems achieving erection can use a fleshlight or use a sleeve to help them achieve erections. The O-WAND® has an attachment the O-GASM that is a sleeve. This allows the vibrations and the feel of the sleeve to help with erection and to produce orgasm. It is an excellent male masturbator.
Disabilities do not mean no sex drive, no desire. They may interfere with sexual function but they need not mean a lack of stimulation or a lack of enjoyment. Sex toys can help make achieving your desires easier and keep the mood smoother.
Sex toys don’t require a partner either. Sometimes people who have disabilities have more difficulty finding a partner they wish to be intimate with. This can lead to frustration as a result of a lack of touch and a lack of sexual stimulation and orgasm. One of the best features of the O-WAND® is that it is fully waterproof! Using it in the bath or the shower is one of the best ways to enjoy the powerful sensations. Warm water relaxes the muscles and can make it easier to use this handheld electric vibrator with less cramping.
The O-WAND® is also a patented handheld electric massager. It is amazing for deep tissue massage and will relieve knots. It can be used on pressure points as well. The variable vibration programmes each produce a different effect and the four speeds allow for variable intensity.
The O-WAND® has another optional attachment, the O-Spot which can be used for G-Spot and prostate massage. It is extremely useful for prostate massage for men who are having difficulty with ejaculation. Male clients of mine have reported that it is one of the best for prostate stimulation. They praise it’s power and the ergonomic grip and the love the vibration patterns and that it is waterproof.
For people who have disabilities, wedge pillows can also be useful to help with positioning. There are a variety of makes on the market however, I particularly like Dame products’ pillow.
Lubrication is essential for everyone. Remember silicone toys like the O-WAND®, water based lubricants are essential.
Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a sex and intimacy coach and psychologist who has spent the last 30+ years helping couples and individuals to create and maintain their ideal intimate relationships. She hosts the A to Z of Sex® radio weekly on Voiceamerica.com. Check out her blog and websites at http://drloribethbisbey.com and http://atozofsex.com . For a 10% discount on the O-WAND® put in the code DRLORI10 on http://www.mrandmrstoy.com.